This might sound strange, but I think that the traditional education model is stuck in the industrial age. We have children sit at desks in rows, for instance. They get information imparted to them in units on a timetable of which someone else deems to be important. They have a bell tell them when to take breaks, when to switch activities, when to eat, and when to go home. They have grades to tell them how good they are and in what they are good.
Rather, the school is a self-organized community of students (and adults, who are not considered somehow above or separate from students) who make decisions about what they want to study and how. This may sound anarchic, and in some ways it is, but it is also structured. People group together in working groups based on common interests, whether coding, urban gardening, film theory or some other subject, and organize themselves, setting their own pace and goals. Study is driven by need and interest rather than syllabus, so, for example, people learn math when they want or need to do so for some larger project rather than drilling algebra year after year whether they have immediate use for it or not, as is more common in traditional settings. Does this sound chaotic? It may in theory, but in practice people generally figure out how to make it work together. Remember that it is a school for people of all ages, not only children, so adults can provide guidance and advice as needed without being placed in a hierarchical position above the students. School time is thus largely taken up with meetings and arriving at consensus about school-wide decisions, from use of space and resources to interpersonal conflicts. School members have power in this arrangement, real power, not the faux power of “student government plans the dance” as in many traditional schools. It’s a mess sometimes (democracy always is a bit of a mess), but that is also the point. You’re learning how to deal with disagreement and conflict in real time, not learning about it secondhand in a civics textbook. There are, of course, those who worry that this structure means that nothing ever gets accomplished or that it descends into simple anarchy. In my experience this is not the case, and in fact such communities tend to self-regulate fairly well, since everyone has a stake in its function.
There is also no distinction between “learning” time and “real life” time. At most traditional schools kids work on meaningless tasks for much of the day, leaving behind the “real world” of adult interactions and responsibilities. At Public School New York people work on things that are meaningful and important to them, often collaborating with people of all ages (collaboration between adults and children across age groups in school settings! Who knew? ), and they are accountable to their peers, not to some external authority figure who enforces rules with reward and punishment. Their motivation for learning is intrinsic interest and a social responsibility to others, not to a system of grades, gold stars, or external threat of punishment. You may think this sounds idealistic but it’s not: this model has been in use, in various forms, for decades. Democratic free schools have been around since at least the 1960s and some go much further back than that.
Of course, there is still some boundaries. There is still some structure. “Free” in this context does not mean “do whatever you want” all the time (that is what people seem to imagine when they hear about a free school). There are still some rules and guidelines because you can’t have 50 people in a space without some sort of consensus (and agreements are only really possible when you have self-direction). Students make all of the school’s policies by voting on them. Students will mediate conflicts between students. Students take care of the space and of each other. Students have a large part in maintaining the community. It is also probably better for you than memorizing a bunch of formulas that will be long forgotten in three months.
I’m also interested in the school’s economic model. It is free to attend, unlike many alternative schools that, despite good intentions, often end up as playgrounds for middle and upper class kids whose parents can afford boutique schooling options. Public School is funded by donations, volunteer labor, and whatever free or low-cost spaces it can secure. Makes it sound scrappy, right? That’s the point. Very DIY. You’ll find people who think that this is a major problem, an example of low funding and support = low quality education. But the other side of that is that the community must be creative and resourceful; it cannot simply monetize problems.
There is also a strong element of age mixing. Teenagers work with smaller children and it creates this amazing mentorship which you just don’t see in other educational environments where everyone is just with the same people of the same age. Older students are able to teach and re-learn things by teaching younger students. The younger students can look up to the older ones and be inspired (or they can be oblivious and do their own thing in the corner. Both are fine). There is a lot of social learning that goes on in this model—learning how to resolve conflicts with others, collaborating, and negotiating. This is the type of learning that matters in the real world and in adult life.
Without a pre-set curriculum also means that students don’t have deadlines or a teacher rushing them through their studies (which can take up to six months to cover what some schools will do in six weeks). Students can learn as in-depth as they want (or need) and in the way that they want. They don’t have to compare themselves to others for grades or class ranks. They have to keep their own pace to their mastery of a skill or topic. This relieves a lot of the pressure that comes with education for a lot of students.
Of course, people often ask about college admissions and job readiness, how do you know a student has learned anything if there is no curriculum and no transcripts and no test scores? Students from free schools get into universities and do great things because they have developed self-direction, critical thinking, and passion for learning. They know how to teach themselves. They know how to look for resources and for experts in a field. They have had years of experience of making real-life decisions with real-life consequences rather than just being told what to do.
The free school model is not right for everyone. Some children work better with external structure. Some parents find it difficult to deal with the unknown in not knowing exactly what their child is doing at school each day. It also requires a level of trust—that children are naturally curious and are capable of learning without being forced or told. It requires trust that children are more than test scores.
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